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“my grandma passed away um about a week ago….28/01/10 and well all my friends were there with me, and if they couldn’t they called me, and they were all really supportive. The only one who didn’t even call was my bff =( …she just send me a text saying she was with me at <3, and idk I thought she might have been to busy to go…or call..even if a call is just a min if she wants, anyway…point is that after a few days I found out she didn’t do anything that day, she wasn’t busy at all. She didn’t even cared that this is the fist time a fam member soo close to me dies, and now she thinks I’m being all bleh with her because she is dating a new guy (idk I guess she thinks I’m jealous or something baah!) point is, I don’t know how to tell her, or even if I should tell her, now that is to late to be there for me. thanks for listening =)”**Reblog this if you have anything to say to this person, any advice YOU can offer. EVERYONE is Team Coexistere. If you reblog this, with your own advice, we will reblog it here so everyone can see it.**
I’m genuinely sorry to hear that your grandma has passed, and I will keep her in my prayers. This might be a case of miscommunication. So from the way you stated your situation, the two of you haven’t talked about this yet, correct? Therefore, you’re not really sure what’s going on in her head, just like she doesn’t know what’s going on in yours. I understand that it’s hard when you’re looking more from those you expect it from, and you get less. Now, I don’t know of your friend, of course, but maybe she doesn’t deal well with death and maybe she doesn’t know how yet. Perhaps the best she can do is send you a “<3” to let you know that she does, in fact, acknowledge your pain and that she is still there. Maybe she actually does care that this is the first time a family member that is close to you has died, but she doesn’t know how to portray her feelings towards you. Death is something that everyone has a way of dealing with and sometimes, it takes some longer than others to find a way that works for not only them, but for those around them. Personally, I think it’s worth to let her know what’s on your mind because friends respect each other. It’s hard to read a book with only half of the pages, if you know what I mean. All I can say is that you let her know what’s on your mind and don’t let this third person get between the two of you. Just tell her exactly what you said in that post. I wish you all the best of luck and God bless.
