February 2010
26 posts
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“im afraid this is all going to sound really stupid when i type it out. well im 19  but a couple years ago i was diagnosed with clinical depression and anxiety, i was on meds but didnt like them and they made me a zombie, so i stopped. well now its getting worse, my parents got divorced, which killed me. i don’t have access to my car anymore, and nowhere to really go anyway, so im...
Feb 11th
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“so I have this friend, ***, and she used to be such a good friend. we would talk about everything and I even got her some 3oh!3 autographs for her birthday cuz she told me she loved them and when I give them to her she’s just like “oh, they’re old idont like them anymore” so I’m just upset about that because it’s really hard to be able to meet them...
Feb 11th
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“Over the past week I told one of my friends I liked them, to my surprise I found out that she likes me as well. Things seemed to be going great and may be they are and it’s just my self consciousness and insecurities setting in. I probably should take a step back before I continue shouldn’t I? Back in 2002 - 2003 I dated this girl named ***. Things were great, I mean really...
Feb 11th
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“I’m going through a rough spot in my friendship with my friend ****. We were really tight since about March of 2009 to about August of 2009. I don’t know what happened, but we stopped texting each other all the time and we also stopped hanging out. I might be blocking out what really might’ve happened, but I honestly can’t recall what did. She was my...
Feb 11th
Information on the new website
So we’ve come to the conclusion that some of you giving advice out there, are sharing personal experiences and that’s great! However, some people may not be ready to share their stories with everyone publicly SO the solution is this website: www.coexistere.blogspot.com On here, you guys can comment on each entry as either yourselves or anonymous!  This saves all the reblogging.  The...
Feb 9th
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Feb 9th
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allenanguyen: coexistere: “so there are lots of things i could use some help with i’m 18, 12th grade but i’ll try not to like, write a novel d: try to not be very wordy and keep it fact but not everything obviously. my family has been told since i was in 3rd grade that i need mental help, that i need to talk to somebody. and they let it go till 8th grade i got caught at school for severe self...
Feb 9th
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“so there are lots of things i could use some help with i’m 18, 12th grade but i’ll try not to like, write a novel d: try to not be very wordy and keep it fact but not everything obviously. my family has been told since i was in 3rd grade that i need mental help, that i need to talk to somebody. and they let it go till 8th grade i got caught at school for severe self injury that...
Feb 9th
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allenanguyen: coexistere: “my grandma passed away um about a week ago….28/01/10 and well all my friends were there with me, and if they couldn’t they called me, and they were all really supportive. The only one who didn’t even call was my bff =( …she just send me a text saying she was with me at <3, and idk I thought she might have been to busy to go…or call..even if a call is just a min...
Feb 9th
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“my grandma passed away um about a week ago….28/01/10 and well all my friends were there with me, and if they couldn’t they called me, and they were all really supportive. The only one who didn’t even call was my bff =( …she just send me a text saying she was with me at <3, and idk I thought she might have been to busy to go…or call..even if a call is just a...
Feb 9th
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taeshia: coexistere: “Dear Coexistere, So there’s this girl I’ve had feelings for a few years now. She claims shes “Bi”, but I’m not quite sure how true that is… I myself dont really put a label on what i am, I like what I like. Im not very open about it, but my friend knows this..the one i have a HUGE crush on. Anyways, shes my best friend and seriously almost every guy wants her. Since...
Feb 9th
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“SO, okay. to start this off- i am an extremely self conscious person and i complain to my friends all the time about how i feel that i am fat and need to lose weight and how i’m ugly and they probably want to slap me across the face most of the time. i have a horrible reputation with people that sometimes i don’t even know that well at all. people think i’m...
Feb 9th
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ceceliaruca: coexistere: “did you have a good relationships with your parents? Cause my mom is bi polar and i have to take the role of the parent which i dont think is fair cause im only 19…and ive told myu family that im moving out and everyone thinks that i should stay with her.  What do you think?” **Reblog this if you have anything to say to this person, any advice YOU can offer. ...
Feb 8th
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“Dear Coexistere, So there’s this girl I’ve had feelings for a few years now. She claims shes “Bi”, but I’m not quite sure how true that is… I myself dont really put a label on what i am, I like what I like. Im not very open about it, but my friend knows this..the one i have a HUGE crush on. Anyways, shes my best friend and seriously almost every guy...
Feb 8th
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oheryka: coexistere: “Well I come from a Hispanic background and so most of my aunts and uncles and parents listen to hispanic music. all my cousins grew up hanging around other hispanics and they all started to listen to hip hop and R&B and rap an music like that. my cousins also don’t care much for their schoolwork and they honestly don’t care if they fail. I’ve personaly never liked to...
Feb 8th
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erikalvsu: coexistere: “Well my cousin was dating this girl for I think 9 months and over that time I became really good friends with her. They just broke up a month or 2 ago and she still isn’t over him. Now I’m being blamed for the reason he wont even consider being her friend. I honestly don’t know what I did but apparently it’s all my fault. He told her that the way I talk about her is the...
Feb 8th
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erikalvsu: coexistere: “One of my best friends started dating my ex-boyfriend behind my back. I don’t know why I’m so upset about this or if I even have the right to be because I broke up with him first. I’m also mad at my friend for starting this relationship. I was kind of in a tight group with them and I can’t really talk to anyone about it because they don’t want to choose sides. I told...
Feb 8th
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linabriel: coexistere: “about a year ago, my parents had come clean to my brother and i about what they were doing every monday night. they were seeing a marriage councilor. why were they doing this? they were going because my mom had cheated on my dad. this was a huge shock for all of my family. one of the worst parts was that i knew they whole family of the guy my mom had an affair with....
Feb 8th
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“Well my cousin was dating this girl for I think 9 months and over that time I became really good friends with her. They just broke up a month or 2 ago and she still isn’t over him. Now I’m being blamed for the reason he wont even consider being her friend. I honestly don’t know what I did but apparently it’s all my fault. He told her that the way I talk about her is...
Feb 8th
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“One of my best friends started dating my ex-boyfriend behind my back. I don’t know why I’m so upset about this or if I even have the right to be because I broke up with him first. I’m also mad at my friend for starting this relationship. I was kind of in a tight group with them and I can’t really talk to anyone about it because they don’t want to choose sides....
Feb 8th
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“about a year ago, my parents had come clean to my brother and i about what they were doing every monday night. they were seeing a marriage councilor. why were they doing this? they were going because my mom had cheated on my dad. this was a huge shock for all of my family. one of the worst parts was that i knew they whole family of the guy my mom had an affair with. some time went by...
Feb 8th
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“hey girl!…just wanted 2 say that love, robot is amaziing!!!!..u guys rock my socks!…haha…and ugh! my friend like 4 real is being a b%@!$ i mean..she is like crazyy…so i guess we are not friends anymore…but i was upset because we were like really good friends..then she decides 2 cuzz me out and blame me 4 her problems and im like screw this ya no?…i dont...
Feb 8th
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“did you have a good relationships with your parents? Cause my mom is bi polar and i have to take the role of the parent which i dont think is fair cause im only 19…and ive told myu family that im moving out and everyone thinks that i should stay with her.  What do you think?” **Reblog this if you have anything to say to this person, any advice YOU can offer.  EVERYONE is...
Feb 8th
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“So have you ever been in a situation where as hard as you try you always have this little part of you that still likes her alot. It makes the situation worse when she’s my best friend  I’m getting over her but she loves to send mixed signals. Right now I’m just ignoring that fact but it’s hard to get over her completely when you don’t even kno hurt true...
Feb 8th
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“Well I come from a Hispanic background and so most of my aunts and uncles and parents listen to hispanic music. all my cousins grew up hanging around other hispanics and they all started to listen to hip hop and R&B and rap an music like that. my cousins also don’t care much for their schoolwork and they honestly don’t care if they fail. I’ve personaly never liked to...
Feb 8th
coexistere
People need one another, we need to co-exist to maintain sanity.  Sometimes in desperation, even the most independent of people realize they need to talk to someone; at least to help them through this particular difficult time.  It doesn’t necessarily matter who, just someone that is willing to listen and actually give you advice and careful thought from the bottom of their hearts.  People...
Feb 7th
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